Why can i just orgasm when i pleasure my self and not during sex?

iv had a few sexual partner but theyv never actually made me crag, is my fault or is it theres as i can pleasure myselfWhy can i just orgasm when i pleasure my self and not during sex?
State of mind and physical confidence.
State or arousal is a difficult area and depends on masses factors, by pleasing yourself you automatically hone surrounded by on the right mental triggers.
Doing it yourself is the other benefit, i.e. the consistency, level of pressure and various touch needed to support your mental trigger is all near.
So, rather than trust to "pot luck" your best route will be to look for a partner beside whom you can communicate without humiliation ,who can work with foreplay to obtain you right mentally then will gain to know your likes and dislikes to go and get you over the barrier physically.
I'd suggest starting beside hand/oral stimulation, then as you become more comfortable moving to full sex.
Note; in that are a number of aids available which may aid in the impulsive days with the physical side.
Good luck !
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Because you know what works for you. You inevitability to convey this to your partners so they can keep on for you or apply the needed pressure. Some men just can't hang about for the 15 or 20 minutes it takes for us to catch warmed up. Trying shifting positions- on top is great for achieving orgasm because you hold control- above all swot to relax and let yourself travel.Google Tracey Cox and get some great tips!!
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Not many women orgasm during sex. It is more difficult for women to accomplish their peak. I hold a great time at foreplay and content myself with the alliance of bodies during sex. The pleasure is more spiritual I guess than sexual and I get great secual pleasure contained by foreplay so I can't complain.